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Embrace Simplicity

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  With all that we have faced over the past two years simplicity to me creates a value proposition.   Because of shut downs, supply chain issues and the great resignation era causing the cost of labor to soar we are faced with inflation.   Too much money chasing too few of goods.   And the inevitable outcome means that in the future everything will become more expensive.   It has to.    The result, I believe, will force people to live in a simpler manner, to value their relationships with one another more than their possessions, and to focus on things that are fundamental to life and to the enjoyment of life.   The difficulties we face in the world around us remind us of the importance of simplicity. Simplicity is not merely owning fewer things. It really has to do with how much energy it requires for you to live your life and how many resources it requires for you to maintain where you live, how you live, how you travel about and your other activities and so forth.   The bible

Embrace Simplicity

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  Adult discussion of this discipline often involves downsizing and cleaning out the junk accumulated in our lives, giving away items, and purchasing less. Our children have something to teach us about this discipline. The simplest of things interest a young child for hours. What parent has not noticed that the box or the bubble wrap which housed a toy is played with more than the toy itself. Tearing a napkin into pieces is more interesting than the placemat and crayon provided by the restaurant. Why do balls, sticks, sand, water, and tent making with blankets over chairs continue to be play staples while He-Man, Cabbage Patch Dolls, Rubik’s cubes, and other fad toys come and go? Children already appreciate simplicity, finding awe in the simplest of things which allows the use of the curiosity God wired into us. As adults we make things complex, wanting the things to do the work for us rather than using the gifts of curiosity and creativity.      I wonder if this embracing simplicity m

Mind Your Own Business

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  1 Thessalonians 4:11-12 to aspire to live quietly, to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we directed you, so that you may behave properly toward outsiders and be dependent on no one.   Mind Your Own Business Our yard has been the site of some dramatic battles between the birds who call it home. One year we had a mob of crows battling a single stubborn owl over a nest she had stolen from them. Another year a mother robin and I worked together to save her babies from a house wren that kept throwing them out of her nest. Several hawks have considered our bird feeder bait, hiding in the bushes under our window to make easy prey of the songbirds who visit, widowing several mourning doves. And one epic afternoon we had a large tree fill up with crows while the neighboring tree filled with turkey vultures, in what I could only imagine was a Jets and Sharks kind of moment. But this year we have a different kind of bird battle going on. This one is between two male cardina

PRAYER

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  Some say they do not pray because they do not know how.  Others say they feel what they have to say in prayer would not be significant to God.  Some pray, but hesitantly and awkwardly because they feel intimidated.  Whatever your prayer life looks like now, I am asking you to consider a  regular prayer life  as something you  add  to your spiritual life this Lenten season. Prayer is a form of communication.  It is just that this communication is with your Creator.  As with any meaningful relationship we all know how important communication is.  Imagine if you did not speak to those around you who you consider the most important people in your life.  What if they could not tell you what you meant to them or vice versa.  In order to grow close to someone, we need to communicate how we feel and what we need.  Most importantly, know that God wants this communication between the two of you more than anything! Philippians 4:6-7   tells us to pray without being anxious, to pray about everyt

Be Still, and Know That I Am God

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The last verse of Psalm 46 reads “ He says, “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.” So, what does “be still” mean? If you’re a parent, you must have said to your kids (at least once!) “oh my goodness, you need to be quiet, I’ll take care of it!” - in response to them clamoring is it ready, are we there yet, I’m hungry NOW…; t hat’s what this verse means to me. The psalm recites a litany of dire and horrible events: cataclysmic mud slides, earthquakes, tsunamis, wars, destruction of empires, then ends with the instruction to “be still”. As children of God, we can stop our clamoring, fussing, worrying, laments, because we’re confident that God knows our issues and struggles and is more than able to “take care of it”. There are many beautiful musical arrangements of Psalm 46: a simple one in our hymnal (#414), the well-known chorus that became well-known in the 1980s, contemporary, and elaborate choral settings. I

Listening to God Requires Silence

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       God speaks to us in many ways – in prayer, through scripture, through prophets, in the words of friends, with the sights of nature, and in quiet silence. But are we listening and how do we discern God’s voice from the other voices of the world?       Very young children may have trouble understanding that God can speak in these many ways. As concrete thinkers, they are listening for an actual voice. In this day, we are not as fortunate as Samuel was to hear a physical voice of God. What we can do is to teach our children to silence themselves so they can listen and to discern what they are hearing. ·          Share the 4 Voices with your children and practice discerning between them. We all have 4 voices: speaking, whispering, shouting, and singing. ·          Take a listening walk: name what you hear but take it a step further by talking about the sounds. “I heard a bird. But was the bird singing happily or squawking like a cat was stalking it?” “I hear a voice but is the

Road Closed Ahead

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Proverbs 3:5-7 5  Trust in the  Lord  with all  your  heart      and lean not on your own understanding; 6  in all your ways submit to him,      and he will make your paths straight. The week that I met my husband was a whirlwind experience that swept us up in its intensity. At the end of that week, neither of us was eager to be ejected from the eye of this storm; but I was on Spring break, visiting friends in Indiana, and I had a train to catch back to Pennsylvania; it was time to come back to earth. In trying to delay the inevitable, we were running late for the train that would carry me away. It was on this 45-minute anxious drive to train station that we came upon the dreaded “Road Closed Ahead” sign. I was panicked. The detour was going to keep us on major roads, taking us way out of our way. We’ll never make it in time!! John calmly made a random right-hand turn onto a smaller road. “What are you doing?!” I asked. “Oh, we will just go this way until we can turn left, and then

Praying through Art

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  My Mom and Gram were great lovers of beauty – they taught my sisters and me to appreciate the beauty around us which God created, and they also taught us that being creative honors God’s gifts to us. Their view was that while God could have created everything monotone, no texture, no variety – He didn’t; the world He gives us is filled with color, contrasts, variety. Gram had a flower garden that was famous in our county – people often stopped on the side of the road just to sit and look. She frequently dropped what she was doing to point out something remarkable: “see how these petals change so softly from one color to another, look at this little toad – how rough his back is and how the colors help him hide, see this tiny speckled egg, how perfectly it is formed”, and always followed by “isn’t God’s creation wonderful?”. Mom had a particular talent for seeing beauty hidden beneath the ugly; she could root out a broken piece of furniture at a junk shop and see how it would look

Prayer in Daily Life or a Daily Life of Prayer?

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      Setting aside the same time each day to pray, joining a prayer group at a regular time for prayer, or meeting with a prayer partner weekly are ways adults practice the spiritual discipline of prayer. Adults become very skilled at setting aside time in their busy schedules to pray and then checking it off their daily list of things to do.     Driving with a carload of family, the adults were chatting away oblivious to sounds outside the vehicle when loud and clear my 3-year-old grandson prayed, “Dear God, take care of the people and the firemen. Amen.” At that point the adults’ attention was drawn to the sirens and everyone said, “Yes Lord, be with everyone involved.”      Children are much more spontaneous than adults and they often can lead us in prayer. They are not so concerned about having the right words or timing, the right posture or audience. As nurturers, we need to support that spontaneity, so they maintain it throughout their faith lives. Spontaneously pray over a

Fasting

  Lent was designed as spring training to ready rookie Christians for baptism. They had to prove they were disciplined for sacrificial living. Novices would fast, pray, meditate on scripture. This edge of hunger makes you more alert, more productive. I avoided heavy meals before both soccer and worship. If I didn’t, even I nodded off during my sermon.   Lent also served a scarcity purpose. Come spring the winter cupboard was bare, spring hadn’t yet yielded her abundance. Time to tighten belts.   Lenten fasting commends itself in manifold ways. Fasting means we consume less so desperate others might have more for their needs. Fasting reminds us that our bodies are not our own. These bodies do not belong to us. They belong to God, to each other. We have a responsibility to treat them kindly. Fasting reminds us that we never will get everything we want. Fasting reminds us what we really need and what we don’t.   Besides, if we can't control our appetites how can we hope to

Putting on Love

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 This week on Wednesday Nights, we talked about the life and ministry of Henri Nouwen.  We will be reading his book on "The Prodigal Son" during Lent this year.  In light of that, and in light of the fact that we've been talking about "putting on" things for Lent, I thought this video echoed the concept of "putting on love."

The Fasting of St. Charles Borromeo

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  Born into very wealthy and socially prominent circumstances, Charles Borromeo (1538-1584 ) felt called to the priesthood – he chose to have his head tonsured (shaved in a particular pattern) when he was just 12 years old.  He voluntarily became poor and lived an austere life because of his deep, deep love for Jesus, and his desire to serve the Lord. He saw Jesus in everyone he met, especially the poor and marginalized. He rose in the Catholic Church, and eventually was appointed Archbishop of Milan by his uncle, the Pope. Convicted that there was great corruption in all aspects of Roman Catholicism, both clergy and laity, he became a leading figure, along with Ignatius of Loyola and St. Philip, of the Counter-Reformation which took place in the Catholic Church alongside the Protestant Reformation. He believed that abuses in the Church stemmed from ignorant clergy; one of his most important reforms was the establishment of seminaries, colleges and communities for the education of cand

To Fast or Not to Fast, That is the Question?

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Associated with LENT but not confined to LENT, fasting is a difficult spiritual discipline to practice with children because it could be criticized as an interruption in nutrition and a possible lead into eating disorders. Children experience eating jags and strong likes/dislikes which frustrate parents. Getting children to eat and eat healthy is a parent’s goal. Older folks remember being told “clean your plate, there are starving children in the world.” Discussion about the practice of “fast” should be entered carefully and age-appropriately.      Young children can relate to the word “breakfast” or “breaking fast”.   Yes, the first meal of the day is “breakfast” because we break the fast from the evening meal the day before. Typical time between daily meals is 4-6 hours. Time between the evening meal and the next morning’s meal is 10-12 hours. Go from supper to breakfast with only water. Forego the “evening-snack” and spend that time reading a Bible story or singing a hymn.     

Mourning and Fasting

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Mark 2:18-19 18  Now John’s disciples and the Pharisees were fasting.   Some people came and asked Jesus, “How is it that John’s disciples and the disciples of the Pharisees are fasting, but yours are not?” 19  Jesus answered,   “How can the guests of the bridegroom fast while he is with them? They cannot, so long as they have him with them." In the past, when I have thought about fasting, I have thought of it as an opportunity to separate myself, to create time and space to focus on God, and to use the physical experience of need to alert me to my spiritual needs. But as I reviewed the passages on fasting in the Bible, there were a few words that kept showing up in the same context: weeping, wailing, mourning, lamentation, sackcloth and ashes.  It became clear to me that many of the times that fasting is mentioned in the Bible it is actually a response to suffering.  It was not necessary to create suffering in the form of hunger in order to provoke oneself to focus on God

Welcome to Lent

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Members of Friends of Grove Presbyterian Church, welcome to the Lenten season!   As of Yesterday, Ash Wednesday, we have entered the Lenten season.  For those of you are unaware, Lent is a 40 day season of prayer, fasting, and reflection upon the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.  It is a way to center us on the work of God, and hopefully give us strength and inspiration to live out our lives of discipleship throughout the year.     Many Christian engage in an activity known as “fasting” during Lent.  This is a practice in which people refrain from certain luxuries of life.  Some people will give up chocolate or fast food.  Others are more creative… I know one catholic man who gave up Sarcasm for Lent, which was exceptionally difficult for him.     If fasting isn’t your thing, another way to celebrate Lent is by engaging in the practice of “putting on” something.  This means you take up a new activity or practice.  Perhaps each day you show gratitude to someone.  Perhaps e